About Me

Wilsen Rey “Eisen” Jiao is an IT Professional who owns Bespoke Digital Solutions and Consultancy, a web solutions startup based in Lipa City, Batangas, Philippines. He is married to Carmela, who is currently undergoing recovery from depression and anxiety. They’ve been trying to overcome depression together for 3 years now ever since they were new couples then. He has learned a lot regarding depression, anxiety, and other mental health illnesses through reading books and articles and experiencing its effects on her wife. He has applied a lot of the sources’ recommendations and has personal feedback on which suggestions helped her wife and which did not. If you’re into the 16 personalities and would like to get the idea of how his worldview is, his personality is INFP-A or the Mediator. Eisen believes that empathy and physical presence are the most important support you can give to someone who has mental health illness.

You can e-mail him at eisen.jiao@gmail.com, and follow on Facebook and Instagram.

About the Site

Being the Rock is a blog about living with someone who has depression. Being the Rock was founded in January 2018 by Eisen Jiao. The main goal of this site is to provide insights, reference, inspiration, and support to people who are companions of people living with mental health illnesses. It helps others imagine the hardships and struggles of those living with mental health illnesses so that they have more empathy towards them. It further aims to elevate the discussion about mental health and thus remove the stigma attached to it.

Why ‘Being the Rock’?

‘Being the Rock’ because my wife has told me different times that I acted as her rock with her struggle with depression and anxiety. Being that constant rock for her to lean on to; someone you can always count on when nothing else makes sense.

Don’t know where to start? You can start by reading our first post.